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10.12.19

How to Limit Your Kids on Gadgets | practice daily these tips, it will help your kid's memory sharp and clean

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If you are aware or not, these internet gadgets are dangerous and stressful too. I closely studied my kids and this is what I learn.


Balancing your kid’s memory


Kids nowadays are very sharp and different than the 20s. They grabbed your words, action in no time. Their living style is also getting a different shaped. Many times you must have thought about how my child is different than I used to. Because we have less time and hence we hand them our mobile phone or tablet. Too much use can lead to eye blind in your kids at an early age. If your kids started wearing glasses at an early age of life then parents who want their children a model, actor or a field where personality matters, you have to start building your children from today.


Play tricky and memory booster mind games.


Playing cards or chess is the best game, despite the fact that I don’t know how to play chess, but it really triggers your kid’s memories better than playing candy crush like games on the mobile. If your kids having limited books who displays pictures then grab few. Bring toys (blocks) which can be built up house or create the shape of different vehicles or animal. Let them using pen or paper or even don’t bother if they are writing on the wall.
Most of the parents slap their kids if they write on the wall, let them use their skills. If you are hitting your kids at an early stage then their creativity will die right there.


Take them to walk and teach them how to bicycle.


The bicycle has always been a favourite for many kids and I did my schooling and college. Still, it is one the best for exercise, I see many urban children go to school by bicycle. Engaging your children for this play is not only increase hunger but also keep your kids energetic level up all the time. He will never feel dizzy or losing interest in any kind of activities. I also had a doubt on this but when I experienced this with my two years old, I found a few changes as below.


  • She got asleep peacefully early
  • Wake up early
  • Had her dinner more than it’s a regular meal
  • Next morning she asked more for it
  • Her thought process had been changed enormously



Engage them in sports activities and exposure to many people.


If you are a sports person then I don’t need to tell all of this. Playing football or cricket can keep your kids away from electronic gadgets. When you take your child outside of the house, he observes people, their actions, tone, language and all the activities they do. It really helps your kids grow mentally faster. If you are restricting your child’s freedom inside the house then he/she will take a long time to develop the champ mentally. Many times we live in a crowded city, have a narrow lane, high traffic. Your kids won’t have a chance to get out of the house. It is really bad, but you have a solution to it. You can take him to a garden in the evening and let him/her explore the little world in front of him.

The reason behind this, after your hectic office hours you can not take your kids to the garden in your society. Maybe your dad or mother take them for a walk, half of the time they are busy losing their weight, walking along the track and let your kids play on their own with one or two kids. This adds no value what today’s kids are needed. There is a huge gap between your father and kids. You are up to date. Not every day but at least on weekends do these activities with them or take one hour daily.

Spending much time with your kids can relieve your stress from the office.


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7.12.19

I felt very different when I attended Ganges Prayer for 45 minutes in Varanasi ― Interview with Sandeep Savalajkar

Manish, govind, shivam, sandeep, surjesh,shubham, durgesh, vipin

Why did you decide to go and how you reached Varanasi, has someone told you to go there?


Sandeep Savalajkar
It was my friend’s wedding in Allahabad, we suddenly made a plan and decided to go Varanasi. Actually, I had a wish to see the river, Ganges. I had seen it in only movies, their ritual, traditional prayers all I had fad about it. We grabbed a train Sahyandri from Kalyan, Mumbai. You can get it from Pune also. When we got there at the station, you can go near the river Ganges by walk or hire a shared rickshaw in just 20 rupees.
Varanasi is well connected and it’s a very nice city, you will get all three-five star hotels, lodging.

When prayer starts, how long it takes and the feeling comes after attending?


Pic credit - Sandeep Savalajkar
If you want to attend the prayer, to complete prayer will take at least 45 mins minimum and it happens once in a day. 

When I attend it for the first time, I was very curious to know how does it happen. There were many lightning, Diyas.
I just wanted to sit there for more and more. I was feeling very relaxed like I am having therapy. 
The voice from the prayer was soothing, healing my heart, mind and the entire body. 
Thousands of devotees wore red clothes, attend the prayer, the sacred smell make you fall in love with spirituality. You will feel, the end is here only.

How was the experience of watching the Ganges?



Varanasi blog pictureI never had seen Ganges before, it is very long, maybe more than 15-20 km. My eyes couldn’t reach to the end. You can take a small wooden boat for a ride, having a lot of stony steps down the water. Thousands of boat travel on Ganges every day. 
It is very clean and does not smell at all. There is a burial place ― Smashan Bhumi, where the dead body keeps burning, Saint keep themselves busy looking straight without getting disturbed by others around the temples, lost somewhere. 
Saints won’t call you to ask you for money, If you want to talk to them, you can go and have a talk.

We saw, foreigners go to them and ask something, they keep talking for hours. They look sometimes scared, I heard, they have many mantras, having placed ashes on their forehead, white long beard, their long hairs. They are expert smoking weed, you will find them on every nook of Varanasi.






Some people call it Benares, some Kashi, and rest of the world Varanasi ― What’s actually the real name of the city?


Varanasi blog
It has three names, but when I visited, I heart Varanasi and you will also get the train of the same name. Big city, reasonable food prices, cleaned.
I thought that food and travelling would be costly but I did not experience like that anything there. I was feeling like I am in Pune. Weather was also good and not that sunny. There is a main temple of Shiva and that is called Kashi temple.
Varanasi is a holy place ―  Spiritual capital of India, a religious hub in India. There are many Ghats, Manikarnika Ghat, Munshi Ghat, Sashashwamedh Ghat

I have also been to Ayodhya, It is almost 250 km from Varanasi and stayed there for one day, there is a Ram temple. But due to crisis, the guards were not allowing us to go inside, the conflict between Ram mandir or Babari masjid.
There is not that impressive than I was in Varanasi, I mostly enjoyed Kashi.

  




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5.12.19

How we come closer after our hard fight? If such a fight wasn't there, the love wouldn't mind

Initial life journey is always a difficult process that everyone has to go through

When we were born, we have many things to learn, starting from walking or learning bicycle, we fail many times, get many wounds. It happens due to lack of experience, some people give up so soon but it is life and has many forms. When we get married or fall in a relationship, the hill size misunderstanding comes and goes, in that periods we learn and only understand life.
In my case, it was an arranged marriage and the marriage was fixed in two days.

How it is difficult to know each-others in two days, but when real soul meets the idea comes from the first glance that how many days it is going to work or how long-lasting or how we got attached to each-others.

"The connections of our souls give us indications and that indication always wise."
Photo by Carly Rae Hobbins on Unsplash

Like and dislike confusion


Hardly interest, likes and choices met frequently. When the opposite decision or likes come, two pots colloid and leads to fighting. If the fight was too strong then one of those ego hearts and our mind stopped on one decision, we don’t talk with each other for hours, days or sometimes weeks too. Actually, in that case, it is our loss if you both love truly. At the end of the day, it’s your wife/husband that one day you have to take care of the lifetime but no one else. If you are in a temporary relationship or have a girlfriend/boyfriend then not talking is a bit okay.

What is your special rule after a hard fight with your love?


As a human, everyone has a good and bad idea, to carry out smoothly of our family life, we must set up rules for the situation. That situation could be good or worst, if you already set the one, it is easier to deal with.
For instance, if I am travelling by bike, I must wear a helmet, if I am fat, I shouldn’t eat oily food and less on sugar etc. Thus in the relationship, if I had a fight do you know what I do? After any worst fight or even a fight of a minute, either of us cracks jokes and laugh out loud. Forcefully trying to smile by making a sudden physical move ― playing with hair or body that evoke smile (it depends upon person to person.) partners know where the perfect spot brings the smile.

How do you convince your life partner after a disaster?


In a bad situation, convincing power matters a lot but the next person must have a good understanding. Life is too long and has many problems, remember no one born with a simple and easy life. If someone has money then he must be lacking a peaceful life or vice versa. At the same time, convincing is not at all easy, one must develop it. Happening this in between the couples brings love stronger. In fight or after the fight this is the one, first weapon you can try to start approaching your loved one. For that, you might have to sacrifice a lot, but it is for your love not someone else.


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